Sometimes I just wanna say, O.M. G. Did he really just say that? It should be a criminal offense when a guy lacks game.  It’s sad but we can (try) to help! Viva la (Skout) revolution!

Pet peeves, we all got them so let’s dish it out (semi constructively). Let’s give fellow Skouts an insight to what’s annoying as BLEEEEEP so we ALL can avoid them. Deal?

Grrrrrreat. Let’s begin.

Ladies and gents, we all want the same thing. What’s that you ask? A BREATH (or even a gust) OF FRESH AIR!!!  As cliché as it sounds, its BLEEEEEPING true! Unfortunately, I can’t exactly tell you what to say to charm your flirt. Wahhhh! I wish I could. However, I can advise you on what NOT to say. To avoid sounding like a mentally bankrupt douche/douchette, refrain yourself from blurting anything sexual within the first few hummm…seconds!! This happens a whole bunch. More than you know. It’s pretty much the general rule to NOT say something you wouldn’t humanly say to another person’s face. Well, at least not someone you just met?! Remember that you’re hiding behind a screen for goodness sakes so, please please please stop acting all ballsy. It’s definitely not a cute look.

Fellers, would you just mosey on up to a women and say, “Hi. Wanna see my shaaalong?” I hope not! That’s really creepy and in the real world we would call that sexual harassment! I’d run, hide, duck and cover. How haunting would that be?

Anywho, the moral of this story is to HAVE (a tad bit) RESPECT FOR YOURSELF (AND FELLOW USERS). It’ll get you much further than being a total creeper. Self respect is pretty sexy – it demonstrates that you have principles, integrity and a buncha other good stuff. But, that’s just me.

So, Skouts, what are some of the things that grinds your gears? Whether it’s on Skout or just in general, we’d like to hear from you!

Good day,
Sheena

Brianna asks: “My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now, but it’s a completely long distance thing. We rarely ever get to see each other (maybe once a month or so), and I’m really worried that we won’t work out. What should I do?”

Brianna,
Your question actually comes at the perfect time. I’m in something of a long distance “relationship” as well, so I’m able to speak from experience. And to be perfectly honest, I am just as worried (if not more so) about what’s going to happen as you are!

And you know what?
That’s totally fine!

Relationships are meant to be a little scary at first — it’s all part of the fun, right? Not knowing what to expect. Not knowing what comes next. Not knowing what he’s thinking, or what she’s thinking, or what’s right around the corner. The nerves and worries are all a part of the dating process, and long distance relationships are no exception.

So what should you do?
Well, the first step is realizing that it is totally human to worry a little bit while in a long distance relationship. It’s a sign that you care, and you should embrace it as a positive thing (especially if you want things to work out). Accept that your feelings are valid and have a little confidence in yourself! Nothing is wrong with you for wanting things to work out. So stop stressing, okay?

Secondly, I’ve found that keeping an open line of communication is the most important part of any relationship — long distance or not. So if you really just need to get those worries off of your chest, let him know! Allowing those feelings just build up inside of you is going to make you explode. And in a long distance relationship, honesty is definitely the best policy. If you need reassurance from him, just ask him for it! This may come as a shock to you, but no, boys actually can’t read our minds. Who knows? Maybe he’s just as worried as you are! So open up to him. It helps build that trust that you both need to keep those worry-warts at bay.

And finally, never be afraid to reach out to the people who care about you (like friends or family), or to indulge in the things that make you happy. In a long distance relationship, you are given a rare opportunity to explore a large amount of “personal space”. Take advantage of that. With all the time that you and your mate spend apart, you could be pursuing things that make you happy as an individual rather than as a couple. Occupy yourself with things that you enjoy. By pampering yourself and keeping your mind busy, you’ll spend more time being satisfied and less time worrying.

To our readers here on TheFlirtBlog.com, do you have any advice for Brianna? And if you have any questions of your own or just need to get something off of your chest, be sure to let us know (anonymous or not)! Sometimes, it helps to get another person’s opinion when it comes to matters of the heart.

So as always? Happy flirting, Skouts.
XOXO Cheri XOXO